The process of Healing

We have come to a point where this word, very sadly, automatically refers to spiritual woo-woo, weirdness and aliens.

I need to break it down for you firstly because I am extremely logic-oriented, secondly because I also happen to be very in tune with the deeper meaning of things.

Since when does wanting to feel better and improve all areas of your life makes you a weirdo, spiritualist, guru or an alien ? Why do people get weirded out when hearing someone talk about healing ?

Definition of healing: “the process of making or becoming sound or healthy again.”

Did I shock you just now? Does it really weird you out to want to be healthy ?

It’s okay, I hope I can play a role in you stepping out of your comfort zone, I will be gentle !

Healing is the process of not wanting to suffer from an old wound for more time than necessary. Healing is allowing yourself to evolve and be MORE than past disappointments, hurts and pains. It is allowing yourself to be hurt-less, pain-less and happi-ER, healthi-ER, strong-ER, calm-ER.
It is accepting to move forward, not dwelling on the past, wanting to be more capable, more intelligent, flexible and wiser.

It is accepting to be humbled by life when realising that after overcoming a challenge, we are still ALIVE and even better, STRONGER.

In a more practical way, healing is waking up and not feeling the sadness we were feeling the day before. It’s looking at old pictures and not seeing the wounds that old self was going through, it is looking at the people who once hurt you without feeling anything at all. It’s being able to pay your bills without feeling like something bad is going to happen to you because the feeling of poverty is still there.

Healing is not identifying with old you because old you is completely healed, not gone, it’s HEALED. That only happens when you accept to feel those negative feelings and say “ okay, I did feel that but I choose to release and start over, clean slate’. Healing is for you, it is not between you and other people, it is not FOR other people. You are the only person you have power over and you are the only person that you need. Your inner world is the only thing that you will always be left with. The day you go through heartbreak and go from one relationship to another only to realise the pain is still there, that day you will think of my words and understand that you are accountable for your healing process: it is not the person’s fault, it is not the person’s wound. It’s all within you. Instead of giving your power away, claim back what’s yours and start seeing how all the healers of this world are here for YOU. The world has changed because the old system is broken. Feeding your wounds with more wounds, treating symptoms instead of roots, that’s all crumbling down.

Be the change you are desperately in need of, contact that healer you saw on instagram, subscribe to my newsletter, listen to a podcast on healing. Take baby steps towards your healing. You have power over yourself and that is more than enough to get started. I was not born aware, I became aware. My truth revealed itself to me. So when your time comes, know that we are here to serve you and help you achieve your craziest dreams.

Sharing is caring, so is healing !